Your Exceptional Baby
Monday, June 25th, 2007When I was in college, part of our course requirement in Psychology was to take Developmental Psychology, the branch of psychology that deals with the ways that personality, cognitive ability, and behavior change during somebody’s life span, with particular concentration on childhood development. There I met theorists like Erick Erickson, Carl Rogers, and Jean Piaget. I learned about infant reflexes, brain growth, and developmental milestones, among many others.
Speaking about developmental milestones, they are the important developments of your child from birth to two years. I’ve encountered a lot of developmental milestones checklists since I was a student until my current teaching years. I feel like every mother should have one of her own, to keep track of their baby’s firsts
First part is from birth to 12 months. Some examples are:
*When you child stops crying because he sees you coming, he’s probably saying he knows he can count on you when he needs you.
*When he cries, goos, gurgles, whimpers, smiles, rubs his eyes, arches his back, turns his head away, or opens his eyes widely, he might be saying,
‘I’m sleepy’
‘I’m hungry’
‘I’m wet!’
‘I’m scared’
‘I’m bored…’
‘I’m overwhelmed’ or
‘I’m interested.’
*When he startles and cries at loud noises, he’s most likely sensitive to sounds. Others love loud sounds like vroom vrooms and weee weees, but not him.
*When he smiles and responds with pleasure when you talk, sing, or read to him, he’s saying he loves to talk and sing with you.
*When he cries or clings to you when a new person approaches, he’s probably scared because he doesn’t know this person.
*When he observes his own hands, turns from stomach to back and from back to stomach, creeps forward or backward, or crawls, he’s learning how to make his body do what he wants it to do. He likes to practice the movements he can do.
*When he looks at you and smiles when he has done something great, he might be catching your attention and makes you want to be proud of his early achievements. (: